Dating apps hate us, find out why

In a world of swipes and fleeting connections, Pairus offers something different. It's where busy schedules meet genuine connections, and where every match is a step closer to finding your perfect match. Join us and discover the beauty of meaningful connections in a world filled with noise.

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We deep-dived into everything that bothers people about dating today

We studied every comment on the internet and interviewed people who were tired of online dating bringing them more stress than joy.

"People are flaky, and there is too much ghosting."

When you match on Pairus, there's a time limit to set up a date. Every date is followed by a review and more than 3 negative reviews will lead to restricted access.

"Terrible quality people on apps that aren’t serious."

At Pairus, we have a stringent double screening process for applicants that involves both our AI and a real human matchmaker.

"Once I match with someone on a dating app, I feel a little lost."

Pairus is here to guide you every step of the way, not just in finding a great match but also in building the relationship skills needed for a successful partnership and a fulfilling life.

"It’s hard on my mental health."

Along with content, coaching videos, and meditations that help you manage stress, improve confidence, and foster mindfulness, you also have direct access to support from your dedicated matchmaker to ease common dating anxieties.

Why settle for fleeting connections when you can find something deeper?

At Pairus, we believe that dating should be about more than just finding a match – it's about personal growth and transformation. we champion honesty and authenticity from the outset.

Our expert matchmakers refine your profile, enhance communication, and provide personalized advice, while our intelligent AI adapts to your preferences, making your search for connections smarter and more efficient.

Life is too short for mediocre connections

Pairus is for those seeking more than superficial connections. We're reshaping the landscape of relationships, one transformative connection at a time. We're not in the business of swipes; we're in the business of changing lives and here's how

You are never lonely on Pairus

Loneliness takes a toll on your health – but it doesn't have to. Pairus is more than just a dating platform; it's a community where you'll find companionship, connect with like-minded individuals who share similar growth journey

You can’t ghost on Pairus

Not responding is rude. We understand busy schedules but we also value open communication. Together we are dedicated to fixing the anxiety around making new connections.

You don’t lie on Pairus

Our rigorous dual vetting system ensures honesty, upholding our zero-tolerance policy towards deception.

Skip the small talk & dive into depth

Our exclusive concierge matchmaking service gets you to experience a new level of romance. We are here with you at every step.
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Unsure how to put your best foot forward? We're here to help!
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Want to enhance your communication? We'll guide you to give your dates a genuine chance.
Found love? We'll help you nurture and grow your relationship.
You had a great date - we want to know.
You didn’t have a good experience - we’d still want to know!

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What is wellness for us?

Predate jitters, we got your back

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With curated guides, guided meditation, and access to your matchmaker, you can prepare yourself for an amazing date

How do I know what’s a good date?

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Review your dates with your matchmaker to figure what you loved and what you didn’t

Do I text them? Do I wait?

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While we encourage open communication, our matchmakers can also help you navigate these tricky “norms”

How do we handle difficult conversations?

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Personal boundaries and expectation setting is super important - our curated content and expert matchmakers are well-equipped to guide you through those

Experience Dating Without Anxiety with Pairus

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Frequently asked questions

Have questions about joining, how do you find love at Pairus or you want to refer a friend? Dive into our FAQs for all the answers you need.

How do you get in to Pairus?

Pairus will be live and available soon. Until then you can Join the Waitlist. Once live, you can apply to be a member within the app. Help our matchmakers with the answers to a few questions so they can make sure you and anyone else who applies is meant to be on Pairus.

Can you refer a friend or be referred?

Yes. Pairus has a referral system that allows you to refer friends, family and peers and be referred by them too. Being referred greatly increases your chances of making it into the app

How is Pairus any different from other dating apps?

Curated matches based on AI and human matchmakers, a dual-vetting system that ensures the right people are on the app, and an expert matchmaker as a guide who helps you navigate matching, dating and more through reviews and curated content, are just a few ways in which Pairus is different from other dating apps.

What happens when you don’t reply to someone on Pairus?

We have a strict no ghosting policy and encourage people to always communicate. App notifications to remind you that you haven’t responded and AI-based nudges to help you pick the conversation back up ensures that everyone is always responded to.

Can I still find value in Pairus if I'm already in a relationship?

Absolutely! Pairus is not meant to be deleted. Our matchmakers and the curated content both can help even after you’ve matched with someone, guiding you through the nuances and stages of the relationship so you can build something strong and lasting together.

What kind of wellness resources does Pairus offer?

Pairus offers guided meditation, anti-anxiety tips and access to content and learning that is geared towards being more mindful not just of others but also your own health and wellness. Plus our matchmakers love checking-in on you and making sure you’re doing well.

How does Pairus match individuals?

Cutting-edge AI matchmaking technology and our expert human matchmakers work together to match individuals based on their interests, values, relationship goals and personalities.

Is Pairus purely AI?

No, and that’s what makes us special. Our AI is aided by and therefore learns from expert human matchmakers who take the time to learn what your individual needs are.

Is there fees associated with Pairus?

Yes, while getting access to the app is free, being able to create your complete profile with our matchmaker and work with them towards finding the right match requires members to subscribe to one of our packages depending on the services they would like.

How do I talk to my matchmaker?

Your matchmaker can be reached from the in-app chat and if you want to speak to them in detail about a date, a match or even have a question, you can easily schedule a call with them from within the app.